To your Heart's Desire

Hello People :)

Today I'd be writing what I love to write about :D Love and Relationships. So leave what you are doing cos I'm sure after reading this, you'll think about what needs to be thought. Confused? Don't be. Read along :)

P.S. This is not my Story! These are pure thoughts. So anyone who is in disapproval, I respect you :)

Any relationship requires constant effort to be put in, day in and day out. You have to express your love in a million ways so that the other person knows that YOU ARE THERE for them. They shouldn't feel neglected and you shouldn't have to feel guilty of not doing so. If you are, then it's better to make amends right now! They say, It's Never too Late but it would be too late if you lose that person.

What people fail to realize is that when they are there, in the present, loving each other, caring for each other and making it a point to go out of their comfort zone; then that is it! You are in the best phase that life could possibly give you. Cherish it, you are lucky that you have someone who will go to any lengths to make you happy even if they are having a hard time.

Then there are those who continue to make compromises and sacrifices, putting their best and receiving nothing in return. The other person might be all the good that they could be but nothing comes out from them; then you wonder whether you made the right choice or not. You realize that nothing good can come out of this relationship and so you make a decision to end it for your sake. Then by the sheer chance of luck or miracle something happens and the person changes and realizes that you are important. What do you do? Do you give them a chance or let it go?

People say it is better to forgive and forget than repent later. My next question is, how does one know when to stop being the better person and leave everything for the betterment of one's future. It is okay to make mistakes but it is not okay to repeat them. Mistakes are our teachers: if we don't learn from them, we are insulting our past, present and future. The Answer: Forgive until you feel that your self esteem is intact, until you feel you are respected and taken seriously! Don't carry the devil on your back if you can't enjoy the dance!

I want to ask everyone here, if you are given two situations~ One in which there is perennial love but no happiness and second, in which there is umpteen amount of happiness but no Love. Which one would you choose? I know most of you might be thinking, what the hell I'm talking about (LOL) but lemme explain. First one is when you know you love them but are not happy because of things they do or don't do. Second is one where you love being with them, you are happy and safe with them but you don't love them in the obvious way.
The reason why I'm focusing on just the above ones is because I want to know what people would choose~ Love or Happiness (if these are the only options available)

Everyone wants love even if we don't express it. Subconsciously, in our mind, we need approval of that special someone whom we are incomplete without. Incomplete in the sense of fullness of life's goals, in the sense of our drawbacks and our dreams. One cannot prosper without happiness and I would laugh at their face (sorry) if they say otherwise! You are happy with yourself and someone makes you happy are two different things. So, next time you tell anyone that you are not happy with them, don't question yourself; whether it's you or them. The answer is always the latter!

You cannot make anyone happy if you are not happy from the inside. So first be happy and content with yourself, know what you want in life and from a relationship, know yourself inside out and then only step into any relationship. You can fall in love without your wish but it's upto you whether you want to be in a relationship or not. It is imperative for someone to be officially tagged 'a couple' for many reasons and so it's completely your choice whether you want to be in one or not. Don't make a fool of yourself and of others by thinking that the relationship will run its course and you wouldn't have to worry a bit! Constant love, care, understanding, communication, trust and the willingness to keep it going is what builds a healthy relationship.

If you have one, Nurture it :)

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5 winners per day. Ends May 3rd, 2013

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xoxo

Akanksha

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Take A Chill-Pill

Life is unsure; always eat your dessert first- Anonymous

Aleksandra Rybinska

Hey Folks! :)

Time for the Happiness Dose :D If you have missed other two, Read here~ Happiness is a measure of Life and here~ Change is Inevitable

Today, I'll be talking about Three Spheres of Life that can inspire (I hope) you and change your perception as well! <3 .. Wear your thinking caps dearies :)

1. Love Love Love

Since I'm the biggest believer of Love; this had to be on the top!

Though I've spoken a Lot about Love.. (Read here), I will not bore you with what I think of Love :P Remember two things~

  Love is No Science, yet you need Chemistry! 

and 

Love doesn't have any formula, yet you need to make each second count!

I can't teach you how to Love.. Not because I'm no saint.. No! Love is Universal. It is different to each, yet holds the same feeling. It means different to each yet symbolizes the same signs...

Love expresses, love resists. Love feels, love glows!

Just be All Happy and You.. And show love to each one whom you care about.. See the change it brings in you :)

2. Negativity

Yes, you read it right! Negativity is so important to us that we just don't want to leave it ever. We Hold it tightly till it suffocates us!!! 

Let me tell you- the only feeling that is bigger in my life is #1. (above) I don't want negativity to hover over my head! So people.. Take out your cell phone and Do as I say..

Have you taken out your cell phone yet? Cm'mon.. Don't be lazy. Go get it. I promise you it's worth the butt-lift! ;)

Now open your contact list AND Delete the FIVE contacts whom you haven't talked to in 1-2 years.. OR Delete THE FIVE contacts who give you a Pain in your A** ... AND Do that without hesitating when the phone asks you- 'Are you Sure?' Believe me- YOU ARE!

This is just the starting step.. Gradually you'll know what/who is causing problem and you'll kick them out of your life for good :) Life is too SHORT to THINK TWICE!

I did- It's your turn now!

3. YOU

This one's no rocket science! You is You. No one is like you. Don't laugh it's true :P lol okay..

See, if you stop doing whatever you are doing.. and look around you (outside) you'll notice something. You cannot Find A single Person LIKE YOU! There might be similarities cos cm'mon girls ;) - shopping, movies, gossip, fun etc etc.. but Not a single person who talks like you, walks like you, smiles like you, cares like you and most importantly~ Loves Like You! Is there?

If there is, then I'm ready to give a free Blog Gift to both of you :P

My Point. Stop being like someone.. Stop chasing someone who doesn't care about you.. Stop making excuses and compromising on your beliefs.. Stop lowering your self-esteem! 

Instead, Stand up for yourself, Say Bi**h 3 times to people who are jealous of you, smile and let everyone know that you're happy.. Do whatever it takes to make yourself happy :)

Before going, tell me- How many of you are coming to the Biggest Blogger's Meet in India, tomorrow? It's in New Delhi, Saket, MGF Metropolitan mall. I am. I hope to see you guys there :)

Also, I want to tell you that I have started learning FRENCH.. :D Because My exams are over and I'm an Engineer now!!! Yipppeeeeee :)

Now, parting words :D

Recently, while reading a research paper on Euthanasia (in syllabus), I came across a line that opened my eyes!

|| The purpose of life is to be happy and to make others happy if possible, to grow old gracefully and to die with dignity ||

Never thought, a research paper would make me think about life! But it's true.. Right?

So I leave on this note and ask you to follow your heart, leave grudges behind and love yourself :)

xoxo

Akanksha

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Happiness is a Measure of Life + Contest Winner

Or is it the other way round?

Today, I will TALK THROUGH PICTURES.. Sure, A picture speaks a thousand words.. By the end of this post I'd have spoken 20k! :D

The Biggest Question in everybody's Lives? Are you happy? I will make you smile today.. Let's begin :)

Did you LAUGH AT YOURSELF Today? :D

Colors- All of them Will Make You Happy :)

What would you miss for this?

Now, lets talk about inner happiness.. Truly Satisfied to the Core! <3

See this picture a friend shared with me the other day :)

Are You Smiling Now? :) Or Have you started to think about the 10 points (above picture) ? Start Already! Waiting for the Grass to grow? It's your life.. LIVE IT YOUR WAY!

And Talking about My

CONTEST WINNER.....

So the Winner of My Blog Contest is...

CandyVioleta

Why is she the winner?

Creativity- Very Creative. No one would think of wearing a pretty maxi dress as a Mullet dress by using a Belt!!!!!

Novelty- This is a new idea. I haven't seen/heard it anywhere.

Uniqueness- Different from the rest of the entries

And here is what She gets!! A Forever 21 pendant necklace :)

CONGRATULATIONS Hon :)

Please mail me your contact address within 48 hours else I'll choose the 2nd best entry :)

INDIAN RESIDENTS- Participate in my another Contest- HERE to win Forever 21 set of FIVE RINGS

In the End, I'd like to make a very special note and THANK BHUMIKA from New Love-Makeup for sending me such an exciting voucher from Kiehl's.. Didn't you know? I won!!! :D Take a look :)

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See You Next Time :)

xoxo
You know me ;)

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