Never Sleep, Never stop Dreaming

Never Sleep, Never stop Dreaming!

Never Sleep, Never stop Dreaming!

Never Sleep, Never stop Dreaming!

The day I was born, I couldn't sleep. The twinkling lights and the moving images of people kept me awake.

The day I took my first steps, I couldn't sleep. I was ready to chase my dreams.

The day I spoke my first word, I couldn't sleep. I wanted to inspire everyone in the process.

The day I started my education, I couldn't sleep. I learned how beautiful learning is; how it impacts the way you live.

I have always been up and moving. The message is clear, Just Move! It doesn't necessarily state that you are unstable or have a condition! It means that you are gutsy enough to take the plunge and follow your dreams; your heart.

I leave you with a simple blog post with a simple message.

Hope everyone LIVES their life with no regrets.

xoxo

Akanksha

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When you find Inspiration

When I finally found inspiration!
It was a time when I had given all hopes and made peace with the unchanged scenario. It was when I was looking someone to guide me; to hold my hand and show me the way. The door to inspiration takes a moment of trust, open-mindedness and when you want secretly wish your life needs something different.

Hello everyone. I hope everyone has been great. I left you in the chilly weeks of December and here I am, welcoming Summer with a brand new post. Today I found inspiration to write this post so I thought to myself- "why not share this inspirational post with you"

So my first question to you is- Do you feel inspired at the moment? Like at this very instant of reading my p-o-s-t? Inspiration is very subjective in nature. You all know that I'm pursuing a management degree. I'm being taught about the process of continuously upgrading yourself: and you cannot do so without being inspired about the next step. How can one think of going ahead when, they are not satisfied of where they are currently, where they want to go and if the place they want to go would be any different than the one they are living in right now. It all depends on that one moment. Inspiration can swoop in a split of a second and completely change your life. That is; if you want to change your life for good!

Here's when you can successfully find inspiration:

1) Trust- A person, a situation or yourself. When your heart is roaming around and you're just unsure of what to do next, turn to a person whom you trust most. Shed your inhibitions and tell them what you lack. If you don't know what you lack: fret not! Link the situation to the last stage where doing something really made you happy. Sometimes acting lost in front of that person, helps *wink*. They'll surely come to your rescue. A situation can bring so many moments that you can't even think of. Imagine if you weren't sitting and reading this post. You would have gone out with friends or slept already, watched TV or read a novel, danced or went for a jog. Situations change and so does your mood. So try and be in happy situations and around people who make you happy. So much for 'inspiration from within'. Books have been written about the same, but the real thing that can give you inspiration (if the above two are invalid) is trust in the fact that time changes and you can do better the next day.

 

2) Open-mindedness- Imagine newton was sleeping when the apple fell on his head. In his case, he was literally having a closed-mind. The point to be noted here is, be open to change all the time. It is the best remedy a person like me can offer. I can actually count the situations when I was determined on proving my point when opportunities slipped and I missed having a turning point in my life. Believing in yourself and being stubborn are two different things. One makes an ass look beautiful and another makes one look like an ass! You know what I'm talking about.

3) Curiosity- Having a hunger for something different and constantly in need for answers makes one inspired to live each moment with glory. Trust me, you won't regret any moment. I strongly believe in the words, "Whatever happens, happens for a good reason". So do not stop yourself in thinking stupid things. Think, even if you think you are wrong.. Others don't have to know that, do they?

Since I've been inspired and I hope I've inspired you- I will write often and I hope you'll visit me as often and drop some love.

I hope you say this ;)

Lots of Love

Akanksha

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Take Control of your Life

"You cannot control no-one but yourself"- Akanksha

The strings of your life is in your hands. People might run over you, take you for granted, expect or not expect from you, make your life miserable or make you feel less of you. It is your responsibility to show them what you are, without having to speak. In such situations and 'natural calamities', remember that everyone has been taught to do good for themselves first and others later. This is the time when concepts in time come along; concepts like, procrastination! Do not fear losing someone at the cost of your integrity then.

For when you are at the dying stage of your life, only people to show up at your funeral would be the ones who had recognized this integrity early on.

People do not write novels about sweet love, promotions and happy cravings. Pain, vengeance and heart break pave way to 'bestsellers'.

God has created a beautiful world. It is balanced! It is a clever mix of science and maths- amount of goodness is rightly balanced by the amount of evilness.

So when you think you're not able to control your nerves, or that this wasn't expected from someone, or when you compromised on your beliefs, take a deep breath and say to yourself

"I can control no-one but myself" - Akanksha

xoxo

Akanksha

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What happens after a Heart-Break?

What happens after a heart-break? The stages and the counter-arguments:-

1) The Blame Game- Both of you are upset. You blame each other for your own sufferings. That you are unable to identify yourself. You were a different person when you entered this relationship and now you are this person who is exhausted of giving and expecting, of listening and relenting.

The Argument- Who asked you to change? If you answer, Time changes things I’d give you a piece of my mind! When you were a child, did you blame your parents for making the person you are at that moment? No, right? Then how can an adult, who is matured in all forms, who in his own free-will enters into a relationship with someone compatible (or so it seems) make such an argument? People change with experiences and the self-consuming expectations. Just stop being at the extreme end and start living the present and you’ll see if it is really a change or that you have grown up!

2) Rising to the Occasion- After a few weeks we realize, “I don’t need a guy/girl to make me happy” and you couldn’t be more wrong. You do! You heard me right. Shakespeare didn’t write Romeo’s Prodigy and Self Love. If there wasn’t a Juliet, there won’t be love. More on that later but this is the stage where you are rising from the ashes (pardon the drama), you realize that no one can make you feel less of yourself without your permission. What about ‘making you feel more about yourself’. How can we forget that the very person who hurt you, made you happy too!

The Argument- There are various kinds of happiness in the world. One is where you are content with your life, the job; one is where you are happy with yourself, the inner peace and there’s also one that is most synonymous with Love- relationships. Yes, Love gives us happiness; the one where the ‘Love Hormones’ play a significant role in giving those butterflies in the first few months. Then your compatibility, encouragement, honesty and trust pave road to blessed future events. Like every coin has two sides, getting over someone also teaches you ample of things about yourself.

3) Minor Distractions- This Is the best time, I’d say! It’s that time when you’re figuring out ways to distract yourself. It can be anything from indulging in bubble bath (for how long?) to chocolate syrup savouries (what about calories?) or a shopping spree (I’ve nothing to wear!). In the brackets you’d see your devil talking ;) Everyone has one!

So here’s my argument- Why choose? Why not try everything in minimal amount and see what works best for you. You can turn into this fitness finesse girl or connoisseur of eclectic deserts. Whatever makes you happy, for once, don’t let the other half speak! ;) Oh! And there’s a mid-way too!!!

4) Suitable Match- Your heart is after all, a heart darling! It doesn’t have much to do, except look for its other half. We might get stuck in between being single vs committed but it all comes to this- If you were in a relationship or even came close to it, your heart won’t give up!

Counter argument- It doesn’t have to! Don’t push yourself as to why are you getting this lonely feeling all over again, you’re a strong independent woman. Ofcourse you are! Why can’t you be the same while getting routinely fixed with the Love Doctor? (Okay Bad one!) Find a man who makes you feel wanted even in the bad ass hair days and pays the bill even if you’re filthy rich. It’s not about negotiations, it’s about gestures!

Play along and Get over it soon

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xoxo

Akanksha

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Self Love is the Best Love

Hello Lovelies

Today I'll have a heart-to-heart conversation with you all :)

Over the years I’ve learnt one thing, that one thing which was always your’s, never left you and never will in future. It is your Image from your eyes!

You might have heard time and again- “It doesn’t matter how others see you. What matters the most is how you see yourself”. This quote is becoming a fixative in my life. Let’s all think about the following questions for a moment.

Do I see myself as Lion or a Cat? Do I see myself Happy and rejoicing or sad and depressed? Do I see myself as one heck of a crazy talented guy/girl or do I follow others’ footsteps and are too scared to follow the good omens?

Now before you get lost in those thoughts or are already bored, let me tell you that the greatest dreams you dream, the wonderful people you meet, the worldly pleasures you experience won’t be fruitful unless you Meet Yourself.

Steps to Meet Yourself

1) Love yourself - This is the first and the last step of all. Love is the answer to everything. Don’t agree? 

Let’s take a quiz, shall we?

World Peace- Practice the art of Love

A bully at school- Needs Love and tenderness

That person in your workplace who is just a pain in the ;) – Mark his/her face with politeness and Love

Getting over a breakup- Love thy neighbour or an animal and Better YOURSELF

Outcomes of Loving yourself

You’ll never be bored- You’ll love the new You who’s transforming with experiences and learning with age.

You’ll never cheat on yourself -Who likes a person who doesn’t care a darn about himself/herself and shower his/her respective partner with all the care. We all know how that is going to end.  A person who is incapable of loving thyself cannot be trusted to love thy neighbor!

Be a HOT Mess like a BOSS! ;)

You’ll finally have all the time in the world - Remember those conversations? “I need space”, “I need time”, “I need #@!%^#”. To hell with those depressing, self-absorbing small talks.

You are your’s, never alone, always there for yourself.

So move those lazy bumps and start making a scrapbook (I’m starting) of the life you had, the things you want to do.. Bucket list anyone?

You could also take your Mom for fancy treats or Dad to adventure camps or swap these activities and have fun! :D

Today's Treat :D from Bakers Street

Just remember that there is no Love in the world that you cannot have. Just reach out and it’s your’s J

xoxo

Akanksha

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To your Heart's Desire

Hello People :)

Today I'd be writing what I love to write about :D Love and Relationships. So leave what you are doing cos I'm sure after reading this, you'll think about what needs to be thought. Confused? Don't be. Read along :)

P.S. This is not my Story! These are pure thoughts. So anyone who is in disapproval, I respect you :)

Any relationship requires constant effort to be put in, day in and day out. You have to express your love in a million ways so that the other person knows that YOU ARE THERE for them. They shouldn't feel neglected and you shouldn't have to feel guilty of not doing so. If you are, then it's better to make amends right now! They say, It's Never too Late but it would be too late if you lose that person.

What people fail to realize is that when they are there, in the present, loving each other, caring for each other and making it a point to go out of their comfort zone; then that is it! You are in the best phase that life could possibly give you. Cherish it, you are lucky that you have someone who will go to any lengths to make you happy even if they are having a hard time.

Then there are those who continue to make compromises and sacrifices, putting their best and receiving nothing in return. The other person might be all the good that they could be but nothing comes out from them; then you wonder whether you made the right choice or not. You realize that nothing good can come out of this relationship and so you make a decision to end it for your sake. Then by the sheer chance of luck or miracle something happens and the person changes and realizes that you are important. What do you do? Do you give them a chance or let it go?

People say it is better to forgive and forget than repent later. My next question is, how does one know when to stop being the better person and leave everything for the betterment of one's future. It is okay to make mistakes but it is not okay to repeat them. Mistakes are our teachers: if we don't learn from them, we are insulting our past, present and future. The Answer: Forgive until you feel that your self esteem is intact, until you feel you are respected and taken seriously! Don't carry the devil on your back if you can't enjoy the dance!

I want to ask everyone here, if you are given two situations~ One in which there is perennial love but no happiness and second, in which there is umpteen amount of happiness but no Love. Which one would you choose? I know most of you might be thinking, what the hell I'm talking about (LOL) but lemme explain. First one is when you know you love them but are not happy because of things they do or don't do. Second is one where you love being with them, you are happy and safe with them but you don't love them in the obvious way.
The reason why I'm focusing on just the above ones is because I want to know what people would choose~ Love or Happiness (if these are the only options available)

Everyone wants love even if we don't express it. Subconsciously, in our mind, we need approval of that special someone whom we are incomplete without. Incomplete in the sense of fullness of life's goals, in the sense of our drawbacks and our dreams. One cannot prosper without happiness and I would laugh at their face (sorry) if they say otherwise! You are happy with yourself and someone makes you happy are two different things. So, next time you tell anyone that you are not happy with them, don't question yourself; whether it's you or them. The answer is always the latter!

You cannot make anyone happy if you are not happy from the inside. So first be happy and content with yourself, know what you want in life and from a relationship, know yourself inside out and then only step into any relationship. You can fall in love without your wish but it's upto you whether you want to be in a relationship or not. It is imperative for someone to be officially tagged 'a couple' for many reasons and so it's completely your choice whether you want to be in one or not. Don't make a fool of yourself and of others by thinking that the relationship will run its course and you wouldn't have to worry a bit! Constant love, care, understanding, communication, trust and the willingness to keep it going is what builds a healthy relationship.

If you have one, Nurture it :)

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xoxo

Akanksha

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Give a Little Love

LOVE connects each individual. We are all hopeless and helpless without it. We need each other for support, living and to keep going.

Hello Friends

Today I'd just be talking about the feeling called love. When I say love here, it means, love for animals, family, spouse, yourself and things.

Can you imagine your life without your Best Friend? A life without dreams, spirit, passion and substance? Forget oxygen; we would be dead inside if there is no support system! Everything boils down to one thing: What do we all need? What do we all want? LOVE

I've seen this video numerous times and each time I see, I relate, I think, I perceive- I cry! Tears show that you comprehend the situation, you relate to it, you want it, you miss it!

I recommend this video to EVERYONE who want a change in their lives. As I said in one of my earlier posts- "Change is Inevitable", you ought to change something in order to move forward. If you don't start, you cannot finish. For this, you need motivation; motivation comes from an experience (either your's or someone else's) or from others.

Here's your Push. Watch this video :)

If you don't feel the difference after watching this then I'll hold a spider in my hand :P JK ;) You would feel the change :)

If you Give a little Love you can Get a little Love of your own :)

For More inspiration, you can visit the tab above, "inspirational posts"
You can also follow me on Facebook for daily dose of Awesomeness :)

Keep loving <3

xoxo

Akanksha

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New Year Nail Art + Some Inspiration

Hello Sweethearts

Just three more days and it will be 2013. How many of you believed that World is Really GOING TO END? Be honest :D. Frankly I didn't pay any heed to the rumor, what so ever! So any which ways; we are ALIVE and Living, right? ^_^

So for the year that is going to come, 2013, I've done this cute nail art which I hope everyone likes. Even after the failed resolutions, let one thing be assured- A colorful start to New Year. As 31st December, 2012  and January 1,2013 would never come let's make this a memorable few hours of our lives :) Take a look at my Nail art!

Do you like it? Let me know with your comments below :)

I'd also like to write something here- Mr. A (I hope you remember him ;) ) said a few days back-

Let's not Discuss relationships, Let's Live Relationships

Have you ever wondered that we are so caught up in life's rat-trap that we have forgotten to LIVE and just continue making A LIVING. We talk about relationships- what's going wrong, blame & hurt each other, find solutions to problems and when the most important thing we must be doing is Living the relationship! I'm not talking just about a partner/spouse relationship but friends and family as well.

Next time when you are in a situation when you are not able to find a solution or are about to give up and don't want to please anyone anymore then just remember this- You don't have to continue this.

Just divert your mind with some songs, cooking, dance, movies or anything you like and then do things which both of you (friends, family, boyfriend/girlfriend) love! Make plans, go out, enjoy and have fun. Don't feel obligated to do anything which your conscious doesn't permit you of! 

You don't like anything? Say it.. If someone doesn't like you they would say it, if they don't then it's not your problem to worry about them! Love yourself, be yourself and enjoy with people you love.

Forget everything and start living in all forms of life! Enjoy to the fullest and do what you always wanted to do. Don't think, do it :)

These are some of the virtues and lessons that would never die. I hope that you liked reading this LAST post of 2012 and got inspired a little. 

I want to THANK each and everyone of you for reading my blog and for all the love you shared in 2012. Whatever be my resolution and however tough life gets, I'll NEVER STOP BLOGGING! This is one of my Life's Resolutions. What about you? Share below :)

Keep Enjoying

Happy New Year. Love you 2012

Love you more 2013 ;) 

Have a great year ahead from Fictitious Fashion <3

xoxo

Akanksha

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